Are you sitting in a marriage that feels empty? Struggling to connect with your husband? Maybe you’re telling yourself you’re just sticking it out for the kids, and what really keeps you in the marriage is God. If this is you, I’ve been there. My story is your story. I want to help you reconnect in marriage and feel cherished again. Hey, I’m Beatriz, a Jesus loving wife and mom I’ve been married for 15 years, but for the past 10, I’ve actually had the affectionate and connected marriage I’ve always dreamed of! What happened the first five years? Well, I was busy telling my husband all the things he was doing wrong, like how he needed Jesus and he needed to do to make me happy. We tried marriage counseling, small groups, and all the things we were told would make our marriage better. Nothing worked and we separated. How did I turn it around? That’s what you’ll learn in this podcast - proven to communicate better, create more intimacy, and be a Godly wife. So if you’re ready to finally communicate effectively with your husband, so you can stop fighting and be on the same team again, this podcast is for you. Now grab that journal and let’s jump right in.
Episodes
Friday Mar 12, 2021
Friday Mar 12, 2021
Are tired of being a mind reader? Do you feel like “he should have known”? Are you frustrated that your husband hasn’t done the things you expect of him? In this episode, we explore “The Script” and what to do when our husbands are not living up to our expectations.
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- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method is my signature marriage course - check the link for details https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/
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Wednesday Mar 17, 2021
Wednesday Mar 17, 2021
Are you married to an unbelieving husband? This is what scripture says about it... How can you honor God AND your husband at this time?
When we are married to an unbelieving husband, or even a husband who is a believer but is currently far from God in their walk, we can have the tendency to want to jump in and fix or change the situation. Here are some alternate actions we can take to honor your husband’s space.
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Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Monday Mar 22, 2021
Monday Mar 22, 2021
In almost every episode I give a disclaimer about how this info doesn’t apply if you are in an abusive relationship. I talk about how you should first focus on getting yourself safe, then if you feel led working on that marriage from a safe place. Unfortunately, abuse can come in many forms and when that abuse is not physical, it can leave the abused person confused.
In today’s episode, my friend certified Trauma and Resilience Coach, Ronica Cormier host of the Mama trauma podcast talks to us about what it means to live with a Narcissist. This episode will help you identify narcissistic behavior and maybe shed light on some of your questions.
In this episode you will learn:
5 Signs you are living with a narcissist:
1- Narcissistic individuals are self-centered
2- Manipulate the situation
3- Pass the blame and don’t take accountability for their actions
4- Confrontations either end up in a blow-up of Narcissistic rage or a “Word salad”
5- They lack empathy
What does God’s word say about how we should treat our abusers?
What are some ways we can move forward?
Did you love our guest? Here is where to find her!
Social Media
Learn More: http://ronicacormier.com
IG: https://instagram.com/ronicacormier97
Mama Trauma Sisterhood: https://bit.ly/mtsisterhood
Podcast: http://bit.ly/mamatrauma
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Monday Mar 29, 2021
Monday Mar 29, 2021
The book Love and Respect by Dr. Emmerson Eggerich can be both transformative and controversial. I found its principles to be really helpful for me on my journey yet have found that SO MANY WOMEN take issue with the way it's written.
Understandably so, It's hard to hear from a MAN who has never been married to a difficult man that he MUST respect his spouse. Then again, we've never been married to a disrespectful wife... Either way, I break down the book and scripture from which it's based to offer us a fresh way of thinking about our marriage roles today.
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Apr 07, 2021
Wednesday Apr 07, 2021
L.A.S.T. is my proven 4 step method to stopping an argument before it starts. If you want a healthier marriage without all the silly arguments, tune in!!!!
In this episode, we learn how to make our marriages L.A.S.T. by
L: Leading with the Apology - A: Asking not to be interrupted - S: Stating our request and T: Telling him we love him
This formula may not solve all the problems in your marriage but I promise, you will start to start to see changes if you begin to apply some of the principles I teach in this episode.
Also! The past episodes I referenced are here: or you can scroll back in whatever platform you’re listening from.
Episode #47
How to craft an effective apology
https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-wsezu-f829c0
Episode# 54
“Love and respect” A strong-willed woman’s perspective. How to Cherish and Champion your marriage
https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-pjrkc-ff02aa
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Monday Apr 12, 2021
Monday Apr 12, 2021
Have you lost yourself in your marriage? Do you find yourself waiting on your husband to make plans for the weekend? Do you spend so much time catering to his needs that you find yourself without time to do anything for yourself? Do you find yourself resentful of your husband’s freedom saying things like “I wish I was able to do that with my day” Have you forgotten who you are in your efforts to be a “good wife?“
This episode is for you dear sister! We’re going to talk about how we can make changes in our marriage without our husband having to change a thing! Are you skeptical? Tune in spend the next 10-20 minutes with me and let me know your thoughts. I mean - what do you have to lose?
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Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Tuesday Apr 27, 2021
Tuesday Apr 27, 2021
Do you feel alone in your marriage? Does your husband refuse to participate? Perhaps he won't go to counseling, church, or family events. Do you feel like roommates rather than soulmates? Two people who do life together but he doesn't want to connect?
Well then - this is the episode for you! Listen in while we learn to fight for our marriage when it seems we are the only one in the relationship who cares to put in the effort.
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Apr 28, 2021
Wednesday Apr 28, 2021
When we’re angry and frustrated in marriage it may be difficult to find the motivation to fight for it and continue. We may find ourselves frustrated when we feel that we’re the only ones who are doing the work. Learn to find the RESOLVE to work on your marriage despite the difficulty you may be feeling in it.
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday May 05, 2021
Wednesday May 05, 2021
In this episode we will talk about three steps to fixing your marriage that are included in the Grace Fueled Marriage Method
1- The Routine
2- The Root
3- The Roadmap
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
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- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Tuesday May 11, 2021
Tuesday May 11, 2021
In this episode, I answer a listener’s question of how to react when her husband is communicating with her in anger. We look at 4 steps you can take to still feel seen, and heard while not engaging your husband in the fight he’s (unconsciously?) looking for.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com