

Are you sitting in a marriage that feels empty? Struggling to connect with your husband? Maybe you’re telling yourself you’re just sticking it out for the kids, and what really keeps you in the marriage is God. If this is you, I’ve been there. My story is your story. I want to help you reconnect in marriage and feel cherished again. Hey, I’m Beatriz, a Jesus loving wife and mom I’ve been married for 15 years, but for the past 10, I’ve actually had the affectionate and connected marriage I’ve always dreamed of! What happened the first five years? Well, I was busy telling my husband all the things he was doing wrong, like how he needed Jesus and he needed to do to make me happy. We tried marriage counseling, small groups, and all the things we were told would make our marriage better. Nothing worked and we separated. How did I turn it around? That’s what you’ll learn in this podcast - proven to communicate better, create more intimacy, and be a Godly wife. So if you’re ready to finally communicate effectively with your husband, so you can stop fighting and be on the same team again, this podcast is for you. Now grab that journal and let’s jump right in.
Episodes

Tuesday Oct 01, 2024
Tuesday Oct 01, 2024
Understanding Grace, Boundaries, and Wisdom in Marriage
In this episode, we revisit episode number two, where I discuss how we can't change our husbands, only ourselves, and the importance of offering grace. Taking it a step further, I address common concerns about feeling like a doormat and emphasize the difference between silence and wisdom. Silence is fear-driven while wisdom involves choosing the right moment to express oneself. We delve into practical steps such as using effective communication, setting boundaries, and regulating emotions to foster a healthy marital environment. Through empowering ourselves, we build stronger, more loving relationships. Join me in our community for more discussions!
02:29 Reflecting on Episode Two
03:08 Understanding Grace in Marriage
04:19 The Difference Between Silence and Wisdom
05:25 Biblical Insights on Fear and Wisdom
08:00 Practical Steps to Change and Communication
11:13 The Power of Boundaries
11:46 Emotional Regulation and Final Thoughts
12:46 Building Community and Closing Remarks
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Friday Jan 10, 2025
E192// Why I scrapped my most popular episode and what's new for 2025!
Friday Jan 10, 2025
Friday Jan 10, 2025
In this episode, I address my hiatus from the podcast and the reasons behind it. I discuss my evolving perspective on marriage therapy, shaped by both personal experiences and professional training. Join me as I share insights from my journey, touching on the importance of working on personal issues before tackling couples therapy. This year, my goal is to provide you with tools for achieving security and intimacy in your relationships. Follow along every week as we embark on this journey together. Until next week, my friends!
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- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
- Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity

Wednesday Mar 05, 2025
E193// Why is it easier to talk to my bestie than my husband?
Wednesday Mar 05, 2025
Wednesday Mar 05, 2025
In this episode, I share insights gained from my recent experiences in therapy training, highlighting the importance of emotional safety in relationships. I discuss how a clinician's listening approach influenced my willingness to share and how this relates to fostering emotional intimacy in marriage.
I further explore how being a safe spouse means being present and non-judgmental, which requires self-awareness and understanding of what safety feels like. Join me as I reflect on my personal journey and offer practical advice on how to model this crucial aspect of a healthy marriage.
02:32 Personal Reflections and Training Insights
03:34 Understanding Emotional Safety
06:29 Applying Emotional Safety in Marriage
07:59 Restoration and Final Thoughts
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- Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
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