The Grace Fueled Wife: Marriage Advice | Emotional Intimacy | Communication & Conflict Resolution
Are you sitting in a marriage that feels empty? Struggling to connect with your husband or wondering why communication in your marriage feels so hard? Maybe you feel lonely in your marriage even though you’re still living under the same roof.
Maybe you’re telling yourself you’re just sticking it out for the kids… and what really keeps you in the marriage is your commitment to God.
If this is you, I’ve been there. And I want to help you reconnect in your marriage, rebuild emotional intimacy, and feel cherished again.
Hey, I’m Beatriz Vargas — a Christian marriage coach, Jesus-loving wife, and mom. I’ve been married for over 15 years, but for the first five years of our marriage we struggled with constant conflict, poor communication, and emotional disconnection.
I was busy telling my husband all the things he was doing wrong — what he needed to change, how he needed Jesus, and what he needed to do to make me happy.
We tried marriage counseling, small groups, and all the things we were told would fix our marriage. Nothing worked… and eventually we separated.
But learning how communication, emotional safety, and grace actually work inside a marriage changed everything.
Today, my husband and I have the affectionate, emotionally connected marriage I once thought was impossible.
The Grace Fueled Wife is a Christian marriage podcast, where you’ll learn how to:
• communicate more effectively with your husband
• break unhealthy conflict cycles in marriage
• rebuild emotional intimacy and connection
• stop feeling lonely in your marriage
• navigate difficult conversations with grace
• strengthen your Christian marriage even when your husband isn’t changing
If you feel like you’re the only one trying to save your marriage… if you’re tired of having the same arguments over and over… or if you’re longing to feel close again, this podcast will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface.
Each week we talk about communication in marriage, conflict resolution, emotional intimacy, and how faith and grace can help restore connection in even the most difficult seasons of marriage.
So grab your journal, take a deep breath, and let’s start creating the connected, grace-fueled marriage you’ve been praying for.
Episodes

Tuesday Oct 06, 2020
Tuesday Oct 06, 2020
Infidelity can ruin a marriage but it doesn't have to mean the end. Stephanie Broersma of Reclaimed Ministry talks to us about forgiveness after an affair.
Stephanie Broersma
IG: https://www.instagram.com/reclaimedministry/
https://reclaimedministry.com/
If this episode resonates with you and you're ready for some accountability - reach out to me!
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
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Thursday Sep 24, 2020
Thursday Sep 24, 2020
This quick bonus episode will ask you a simple question to encourage you to go the distance in your life and marriage.
If this episode resonates with you and you're ready for some accountability - reach out to me!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
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Monday Sep 21, 2020
Monday Sep 21, 2020
All too often when we are upset with our husbands we have a tendency to respond to him in anger over all the things he didn’t do right.
Even though we know we will most likely have better results if we respond in love, we find ourselves having a tough time doing so.
Learn tactical tips and mindset shifts to respond to your husband in love vs anger and start seeing the transformation in your marriage today.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com

Thursday Aug 27, 2020
Thursday Aug 27, 2020
Are you frustrated with feeling like you're the only one interested in personal growth? Every time you look at your husband watching TV, playing video games or scrolling through his phone it just aggravates you - doesn't it.
What can we do? How can we let him know this bothers us?
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com

Tuesday Aug 18, 2020
Tuesday Aug 18, 2020
This is a recording of an interview I did for the So She Grows Podcast with Ashley Carrol.
We talk about stopping the crazy cycle in your marriage, giving your husband grace vs. feeling like a doormat, and becoming more than roommates in your marriage.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
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Wednesday Aug 12, 2020
Wednesday Aug 12, 2020
One of the most common themes or questions I’ve heard from women who are in a really ugly place in their marriage is how do I change my husband? How do I get him to stop doing X or start doing Y? This is certainly a fair question.
This episode will get right to the heart of your mindset of the power of positive influence in marriage. It will also offer you some tactical tips to influence your husband’s heart and surrender the outcome to God for your healing and reconnection.
If this episode resonates with you and you're ready for some accountability - reach out to me!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com

Friday Aug 07, 2020
Friday Aug 07, 2020
Are you a Christian struggling with your marriage?
You are not alone. We discuss normalizing these struggles so women feel more empowered to seek help. An unbiased accountability partner can help you with that.
If this episode resonates with you and you're ready for some accountability - reach out to me!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com

Friday Jul 31, 2020
Friday Jul 31, 2020
Sometimes when life gets hard, we want to give up. Time and time again we see examples in the bible of people who had enough faith to wait on God’s timing. If you're feeling like you’re losing hope in your marriage, with your prayers, your dreams, or business this message is for you.
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
Schedule a 45 min 1:1 coaching call: https://thegracefueledwife.com/coaching
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Wednesday Jul 29, 2020
Wednesday Jul 29, 2020
Have you ever felt not good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, skinny enough, unworthy of your calling, or imposter syndrome? This is what God has to say to you. Find healing, and transformation right here!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com

Tuesday Jul 21, 2020
Tuesday Jul 21, 2020
The fact that you even clicked this link to listen to this episode is an accomplishment! So many times we think this thought in private and are afraid to let anyone know we’re struggling with the answer. Everyone’s situation is different. This episode and worksheet will take you through a series of questions to identify whether or not your marriage is worth saving. The answers are unique to your particular situation but I guarantee if you go through the questions you will start to identify what God is telling you about the answer.
I ask one thing from you about this episode. Share it!
Even if it doesn’t apply to you. Even if you KNOW your marriage is worth doing the work to improve it. You never know who in your life is struggling with this thought and needs to hear this. Most people won’t just come right out and say it.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com





