Are you sitting in a marriage that feels empty? Struggling to connect with your husband? Maybe you’re telling yourself you’re just sticking it out for the kids, and what really keeps you in the marriage is God. If this is you, I’ve been there. My story is your story. I want to help you reconnect in marriage and feel cherished again. Hey, I’m Beatriz, a Jesus loving wife and mom I’ve been married for 15 years, but for the past 10, I’ve actually had the affectionate and connected marriage I’ve always dreamed of! What happened the first five years? Well, I was busy telling my husband all the things he was doing wrong, like how he needed Jesus and he needed to do to make me happy. We tried marriage counseling, small groups, and all the things we were told would make our marriage better. Nothing worked and we separated. How did I turn it around? That’s what you’ll learn in this podcast - proven to communicate better, create more intimacy, and be a Godly wife. So if you’re ready to finally communicate effectively with your husband, so you can stop fighting and be on the same team again, this podcast is for you. Now grab that journal and let’s jump right in.
Episodes
Saturday Oct 21, 2023
Saturday Oct 21, 2023
It's out of character for me to go so long without an episode!!! Honestly, I've been going through a lot personally over the past few weeks. Here is a QUICK life update AND a link to an episode I guested on for another show. Happy Listening and I'll be back soon for you!!
My guest appearance on The Grace Filled Leader Podcast is linked for you below. I will have the episode I recorded with her available soon. Check her out!
Part 1-
Part 2-
Website: https://gracefilledleader.com
Freebie:
Tuesday Dec 05, 2023
Tuesday Dec 05, 2023
We’ve all been through tough seasons in life. Times when we are struggling in life and marriage, times when we don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel, times when our mental health is low and we’re experiencing anxiety, depression, overwhelm, and burnout.
As a wife and mom, these seasons can happen more often than you think. In today’s episode, I give you 3 practical ways to give yourself grace in such seasons.
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free.
- Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Thursday Dec 14, 2023
Thursday Dec 14, 2023
As wives and moms who wear all the hats and juggle all the priorities, it can be easy to fall into a role of people pleasing and subsequent burnout. This week's guest Tanya Engesether, of the Grace Filled Leader podcast, shares her journey of people pleasing through her work relationships, and how she was able to reclaim her identity in Christ and start setting healthy boundaries.
We also get vulnerable in discussing how recovering from people-pleasing can potentially bring distress to a marriage and what we can do to maintain a healthy relationship in the process.
If you’re interested in learning more from today’s guest check out her information below:
Tanya Engesether
Podcast: The Grace Filled Leader
Website: TheGraceFilledLeader.com
Freebie: 7 Day Gratitude Journal
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free.
- Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Dec 20, 2023
Wednesday Dec 20, 2023
Infidelity…Let’s talk about it. For a show on marriages, I’m surprised I don’t talk about it more! In this week’s episode, we talk about the root cause of infidelity, discern the risk factors that might exist for our own marriages, and explore ways to guard our marriage against it.
Even if - or especially if, you haven’t walked through infidelity before, this episode is for you!!!
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Work with me:
- Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free.
- Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Dec 27, 2023
Wednesday Dec 27, 2023
We’ve all been there, we’ve all prayed for a thing that was in God’s will or truly believed it to be in His will and wondered why that prayer wasn’t answered or wasn’t answered the way we thought it should.
This conversation between friends will fill your cup and encourage you in a profound way in that season. In this episode, my friend shares the story of how she prayed in earnest to save her marriage but still ended up in divorce. She shares how God has brought her through it. What he did, and is still doing. You will be left with hope and peace.
Save this episode and share it. You won’t be disappointed.
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free.
- Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Thursday Jan 04, 2024
Thursday Jan 04, 2024
Most women looking to save their marriages first look to try marriage counseling. While Marriage counseling can be really helpful, there are important things to know before you invest time and money into the process.
Not to mention that I take issue with some things that happen in marriage counseling and think it’s important to know the types of marriage counseling I recommend. This episode will let you know what red flags to look for when searching for a marriage counselor, what types of marriage therapists I encourage you to consider, and what work you can do BEFORE you get to marriage counseling that will help you achieve better results!
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Work with me:
- Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free.
- Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Monday Jan 08, 2024
Monday Jan 08, 2024
Here are 5 of my newest book recommendations to help you achieve a more loving and connected marriage! Listen in to find out why I think these books are special and how I think they can help you in your marriage journey today.
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free.
- Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Monday Jan 15, 2024
Monday Jan 15, 2024
A loving and connected marriage doesn’t happen by accident. It takes work and intention. In fact, all intimacy takes intention! Whether that be with your husband or the Lord, in today's episode, Rosie Alejandro gives us tips to grow your relationship with God and strengthen your marriage.
If you loved today's guest, you can find out more about her here:
Website: https://theintentionalchristianwoman.com/
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-christian-woman-daily-bible-study/id1568177949
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free.
- Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Monday Jan 29, 2024
Monday Jan 29, 2024
Do you ever feel like what is wrong with me? Am I not loveable? Why do we have so many communication problems? Are you wondering why your relationship is so toxic? Have you felt like you’re walking on eggshells and can’t determine if your husband is abusive or just has a cranky demeanor?
All these questions are answered in this interview with Annette Oltmans of the Mend Project as she shares her work with us on covert emotional abuse. This is one of my most important episodes to date because as Annette says - “Clarity is the first step to healing.”
She answers questions such as:
- What is emotional abuse?
- What is double abuse and what can pastors and therapists do to prevent it?
- How can we discern if we are in a double abuse situation?
- What is the responsibility of the complementarian church as it relates to abuse and telling women to submit to their husbands?
- What are common abusive behaviors and red flags we should look out for?
- What is the difference between someone with a mean/cranky disposition (or someone raised with bad habits) vs. a chronic abuser?
If this episode resonated with you or you think may apply to someone you know, please share it! If you want to learn more about the Mend Project, please visit https://themendproject.com/
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free.
- Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Jan 31, 2024
Wednesday Jan 31, 2024
In this week’s episode, I continue my conversation with Annette Otlmans. Annette takes us into the mind of a chronic abuser and gives us the 4 pillars of emotional abuse which are:
Ridgid thinking in these areas:
- Entitlement
- Image management
- Faulty belief system
- Lower emotional IQ
Annette and I also discuss what the bible says about submission, oppression, and abuse as it relates to being a biblical wife. We talk about toxic masculinity but also acknowledge the ways in which the patriarchy can be benevolent.
Lastly, Annette gives us resources and steps to take if we realize we’re in an abusive relationship but aren’t able to or choose not to leave.
If this episode resonated with you or you think may apply to someone you know, please share it!
If you want to learn more about the Mend Project, please visit https://themendproject.com/ or follow them on IG: https://www.instagram.com/themendproject/?hl=en
Here are the other resources she mentioned:
Website: Natalie Hoffman https://www.flyingfreenow.com/
Book: The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by: Leslie Burnick
Book: Dating loving and leaving a narcissist by: Dr. Jamie Zuckerman
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free.
- Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com