Are you sitting in a marriage that feels empty? Struggling to connect with your husband? Maybe you’re telling yourself you’re just sticking it out for the kids, and what really keeps you in the marriage is God. If this is you, I’ve been there. My story is your story. I want to help you reconnect in marriage and feel cherished again. Hey, I’m Beatriz, a Jesus loving wife and mom I’ve been married for 15 years, but for the past 10, I’ve actually had the affectionate and connected marriage I’ve always dreamed of! What happened the first five years? Well, I was busy telling my husband all the things he was doing wrong, like how he needed Jesus and he needed to do to make me happy. We tried marriage counseling, small groups, and all the things we were told would make our marriage better. Nothing worked and we separated. How did I turn it around? That’s what you’ll learn in this podcast - proven to communicate better, create more intimacy, and be a Godly wife. So if you’re ready to finally communicate effectively with your husband, so you can stop fighting and be on the same team again, this podcast is for you. Now grab that journal and let’s jump right in.
Episodes
Friday Mar 11, 2022
Friday Mar 11, 2022
Hey mama, are you tired?
Are you tired of feeling like you have a disconnected and loveless marriage?
Are you tired of feeling like your husband is more of a roommate than a spouse?
Are you tired of feeling like your marriage is over and there is very little hope because your husband walked out and you are now left alone?
Are you tired of all the marriage resources for Christian women either needing your husband to participate or expecting you to simply submit?
Are you looking for a God-centered resource that will help you fix your marriage GOD’s way, WITHOUT being a doormat?
Are you looking to be led by the Holy Spirit in your marriage rather than your emotions?
Have you been considering the Grace Fueled Marriage Method but are not sure if it’s a good fit for you?
Meet my student Kay.
In this episode, we talk about her experiences with my course and coaching program, The Grace Fueled Marriage Method. She tells us how she was skeptical at first but went from fighting with her husband to getting flowers, jewelry, and homemade breakfast from him within a matter of a few short weeks.
Listen in to this juicy episode!!
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
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- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Thursday Mar 17, 2022
Thursday Mar 17, 2022
Has your husband told you that he doesn’t love you anymore and wants out? That he no longer wants to be in the marriage? That he is tired of trying to make it work? That the issues are mostly yours and he doesn’t believe they will change?
You are not alone. These were some of the exact words from 5 different listeners this month. There may still be hope for your marriage but you have to start by handling the separation with grace. Getting angry, trying to cling to him, or treating him the way he deserves to be treated at this moment will get you nowhere.
I should know. I was in your shoes once.
Here are 5 ways to handle your separation with grace - and while God handles the rest.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Mar 30, 2022
Wednesday Mar 30, 2022
I’m sure at one time or another you and your husband have fought over finances. It is one of the #1 fights couples have and is actually the 2nd leading cause of divorce after infidelity.
But just because you may be fighting about money now, doesn’t mean you have to continue that way. In this episode, we talk about 4 things you can do to stop fighting over money, start communicating about it more effectively, and start your journey toward financial harmony with your husband. Meaning - this will help you and your husband get on the same page about money!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Apr 06, 2022
Wednesday Apr 06, 2022
You may not be able to change your husband but you can influence him!!!!
Here are a few ways you can influence your husband WITHOUT manipulating him!
1 - with your actions.
- Model the behavior you want
- Listen without interruption (help him to feel seen and heard)
- Act with integrity - do what you say you will do
2- Your silence
- Don't criticize. “If you want to gather honey” don’t kick over the beehive!" -Dale Carnegie
- Criticizing people causes them to become defensive and rationalize their actions.
- There are other ways to get your point across
3- Your affections
- Show him the kindness of Christ. This is not about manipulating him with sex but rather showing true kindness to him even when he doesn't deserve it
In essence, you can influence your husband by the level of grace you show him. Grace is unmerited kindness (courteous goodwill) how much can you show him today?
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Tuesday Apr 12, 2022
Tuesday Apr 12, 2022
If you’ve ever gotten frustrated because your apology wasn’t accepted or perhaps your husband’s apology didn’t feel genuine for you, this episode is for you! You'll learn why your husband might not believe your apology or why you might not believe his.
Also, here is the link to my previous episode referenced talking about How to craft an effective apology.
Apple Podcasts:
E47// How to craft an effective apology
Spotify:
E47// How to craft an effective apology
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
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- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Apr 20, 2022
Wednesday Apr 20, 2022
Ever wonder why your husband is so grumpy? Learn why AND help your cranky husband come around with these 5 quick tips.
Remember, since we probably aren’t going to divorce over moodiness it's more of a tension to be managed rather than a problem to be solved!
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
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- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Thursday Apr 28, 2022
Thursday Apr 28, 2022
If you are looking for books on marriage whether your marriage is struggling or faces normal struggles like everyone else, this episode is for you.
I give you my top 3 books to read for the next three months to improve and restore your marriage.
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Tuesday May 03, 2022
Tuesday May 03, 2022
Are you looking for more intimacy in your marriage? Whether you want more sex or just more meaningful conversation the state of your bedroom could be to blame for the disconnection you’re feeling.
This episode will give you three questions to ponder to identify how making some changes to your bedroom can lead to major changes in your marriage.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
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- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Saturday May 07, 2022
Saturday May 07, 2022
Are you trying to improve your marriage by yourself? Don't feel bad. Many of my listeners are. In this episode, we learn how to improve your marriage with self-coaching.
This new weekly series will take you through common marriage struggles to coach yourself into a transformed marriage.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Tuesday May 10, 2022
Tuesday May 10, 2022
Is it ever okay to give your husband the silent treatment?
I’m sure you’ve wanted to before. Who hasn’t? Although anger and resentment may cause you to want to give your husband the silent treatment, healthy marriages have strong communication and high intimacy levels.
So what do we do when we’re not feeling those things? In this week’s episode, we learn how and when it might be appropriate to give our husband the silent treatment.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
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- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com