The Grace Fueled Wife: Marriage Advice | Emotional Intimacy | Communication & Conflict Resolution
Are you sitting in a marriage that feels empty? Struggling to connect with your husband or wondering why communication in your marriage feels so hard? Maybe you feel lonely in your marriage even though you’re still living under the same roof.
Maybe you’re telling yourself you’re just sticking it out for the kids… and what really keeps you in the marriage is your commitment to God.
If this is you, I’ve been there. And I want to help you reconnect in your marriage, rebuild emotional intimacy, and feel cherished again.
Hey, I’m Beatriz Vargas — a Christian marriage coach, Jesus-loving wife, and mom. I’ve been married for over 15 years, but for the first five years of our marriage we struggled with constant conflict, poor communication, and emotional disconnection.
I was busy telling my husband all the things he was doing wrong — what he needed to change, how he needed Jesus, and what he needed to do to make me happy.
We tried marriage counseling, small groups, and all the things we were told would fix our marriage. Nothing worked… and eventually we separated.
But learning how communication, emotional safety, and grace actually work inside a marriage changed everything.
Today, my husband and I have the affectionate, emotionally connected marriage I once thought was impossible.
On The Grace Fueled Wife Podcast, you’ll learn how to:
• communicate more effectively with your husband
• break unhealthy conflict cycles in marriage
• rebuild emotional intimacy and connection
• stop feeling lonely in your marriage
• navigate difficult conversations with grace
• strengthen your Christian marriage even when your husband isn’t changing
If you feel like you’re the only one trying to save your marriage… if you’re tired of having the same arguments over and over… or if you’re longing to feel close again, this podcast will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface.
Each week we talk about communication in marriage, conflict resolution, emotional intimacy, and how faith and grace can help restore connection in even the most difficult seasons of marriage.
So grab your journal, take a deep breath, and let’s start creating the connected, grace-fueled marriage you’ve been praying for.
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Episodes
Wednesday Apr 06, 2022
Wednesday Apr 06, 2022
You may not be able to change your husband but you can influence him!!!!
Here are a few ways you can influence your husband WITHOUT manipulating him!
1 - with your actions.
Model the behavior you want
Listen without interruption (help him to feel seen and heard)
Act with integrity - do what you say you will do
2- Your silence
Don't criticize. “If you want to gather honey” don’t kick over the beehive!" -Dale Carnegie
Criticizing people causes them to become defensive and rationalize their actions.
There are other ways to get your point across
3- Your affections
Show him the kindness of Christ. This is not about manipulating him with sex but rather showing true kindness to him even when he doesn't deserve it
In essence, you can influence your husband by the level of grace you show him. Grace is unmerited kindness (courteous goodwill) how much can you show him today?
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Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
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Wednesday Mar 30, 2022
Wednesday Mar 30, 2022
I’m sure at one time or another you and your husband have fought over finances. It is one of the #1 fights couples have and is actually the 2nd leading cause of divorce after infidelity.
But just because you may be fighting about money now, doesn’t mean you have to continue that way. In this episode, we talk about 4 things you can do to stop fighting over money, start communicating about it more effectively, and start your journey toward financial harmony with your husband. Meaning - this will help you and your husband get on the same page about money!
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The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
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Thursday Mar 17, 2022
Thursday Mar 17, 2022
Has your husband told you that he doesn’t love you anymore and wants out? That he no longer wants to be in the marriage? That he is tired of trying to make it work? That the issues are mostly yours and he doesn’t believe they will change?
You are not alone. These were some of the exact words from 5 different listeners this month. There may still be hope for your marriage but you have to start by handling the separation with grace. Getting angry, trying to cling to him, or treating him the way he deserves to be treated at this moment will get you nowhere.
I should know. I was in your shoes once.
Here are 5 ways to handle your separation with grace - and while God handles the rest.
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
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Friday Mar 11, 2022
Friday Mar 11, 2022
Hey mama, are you tired?
Are you tired of feeling like you have a disconnected and loveless marriage?
Are you tired of feeling like your husband is more of a roommate than a spouse?
Are you tired of feeling like your marriage is over and there is very little hope because your husband walked out and you are now left alone?
Are you tired of all the marriage resources for Christian women either needing your husband to participate or expecting you to simply submit?
Are you looking for a God-centered resource that will help you fix your marriage GOD’s way, WITHOUT being a doormat?
Are you looking to be led by the Holy Spirit in your marriage rather than your emotions?
Have you been considering the Grace Fueled Marriage Method but are not sure if it’s a good fit for you?
Meet my student Kay.
In this episode, we talk about her experiences with my course and coaching program, The Grace Fueled Marriage Method. She tells us how she was skeptical at first but went from fighting with her husband to getting flowers, jewelry, and homemade breakfast from him within a matter of a few short weeks.
Listen in to this juicy episode!!
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
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Wednesday Mar 09, 2022
Wednesday Mar 09, 2022
We’ve all heard about couples who “grow apart.” It’s what happens when they become so disconnected and far away that they have trouble getting back to the passion and love they once shared. This “growing apart” usually starts off with roommate syndrome. You know, that feeling that your husband is more of a roommate than a soulmate…
Here is the truth, just because your marriage may feel like that now does NOT mean it’s destined to fail. Roommate syndrome is a normal stage that many marriages fall into. The difference between marriages that fail and ones that thrive is that happy couples learn to recognize the signs early on and do things to prevent it from getting worse.
Listen in for 2 tips to start implementing TODAY so you can see the roommate syndrome be reversed within a few weeks.
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Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
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Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
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Wednesday Mar 02, 2022
Wednesday Mar 02, 2022
Are you wondering what God says about you, your marriage, the plans you have in life? In this episode, we discuss 3 tips to start hearing God’s voice today as taught by Priscilla Shirer in her book Discerning the Voice of God.
Let me know what you think!! Let’s connect!
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
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Monday Feb 21, 2022
Monday Feb 21, 2022
Are you feeling insecure in your marriage? A few weeks ago we talked about how insecurity is hurting your marriage, in this episode, we learn 3 tips (plus a bonus 😉) for how to overcome that insecurity, improve your connection, and reduce resentment for your husband.
Let me know what you think!! Let’s connect!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Feb 16, 2022
Wednesday Feb 16, 2022
In this LIVE COACHING episode we discuss how to rekindle intimacy in your marriage after a rough season. We talk about being afraid of rejection, lacking the confidence to initiate sex, and needing to push past a mental block that is preventing you from having the marriage of your dreams.
You DO NOT want to miss this!!!
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Thursday Feb 10, 2022
Thursday Feb 10, 2022
As we enter into this second month of the year many of us are looking at the goals or resolutions we’ve made - or broken so far and either thinking about how to recommit to them or how we can make new goals.
So often, however, we make goals for our health, business, faith, motherhood, and we DON’T make goals for our marriage yet God’s word says very clearly, “without vision the people will perish” Proverbs 19:18
Let’s take these next few minutes together to discuss why we should make goals for our marriage and how to make and achieve those goals.
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Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
We can all feel unappreciated in marriage at times.
Here are three ways to reduce your resentment and increase intimacy in your marriage rather than creating resentment and anger.
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