Are you sitting in a marriage that feels empty? Struggling to connect with your husband? Maybe you’re telling yourself you’re just sticking it out for the kids, and what really keeps you in the marriage is God. If this is you, I’ve been there. My story is your story. I want to help you reconnect in marriage and feel cherished again. Hey, I’m Beatriz, a Jesus loving wife and mom I’ve been married for 15 years, but for the past 10, I’ve actually had the affectionate and connected marriage I’ve always dreamed of! What happened the first five years? Well, I was busy telling my husband all the things he was doing wrong, like how he needed Jesus and he needed to do to make me happy. We tried marriage counseling, small groups, and all the things we were told would make our marriage better. Nothing worked and we separated. How did I turn it around? That’s what you’ll learn in this podcast - proven to communicate better, create more intimacy, and be a Godly wife. So if you’re ready to finally communicate effectively with your husband, so you can stop fighting and be on the same team again, this podcast is for you. Now grab that journal and let’s jump right in.
Episodes
Tuesday Jan 11, 2022
Tuesday Jan 11, 2022
Wives, I see you out there - trying as best you can to hold the family together. Trying to maintain an image of a respectable family - which you have, except that your husband shows up much less than you let on. I see you, making excuses for him when he doesn’t show up to church, a family event, or an invitation to a friends house. I see you. searching for community, trying, what it seems like - all on your own to build a stronger faith foundation in your home.
I see you mama, trying to keep it quiet because you don’t wan’t anyone thinking bad about your husband. He is a good man. He loves you. He loves your kids. You just wish he would show up in more new areas - like pray for the family, lead the family, show the loving soft heart of Jesus towards others.
You want to show love and grace to your husband, despite feeling frustrated, hurt and disappointed. My story is your story. From being abandoned by my husband for my faith to reconciling and leading ministry together, to making excuses again, I have been there. The most important thing I’ve learned is this:
Being a grace fueled wife means a commitment to continue working on the marriage EVEN IF he isn’t showing up. It means being in constant prayer for your husband and surrendering the final outcome of your marriage to God.
But when happens when you’re tired? You’re tired of taking care of everything around the house. You just wish your husband would help you out more but don’t know how to ask, or don’t want to nag him yet again.
Here are three things you can do to empower your husband to take care of you! This will leave you feeling more supported and less resentful!
Here is the link to the episode I referenced:
On Apple podcasts: E74//How to get what you want without nagging
On Spotify: E74//How to get what you want without nagging
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Tuesday Jan 18, 2022
Tuesday Jan 18, 2022
Ever wonder why your husband says such hurtful things? In this episode, we explore 3 reasons why he might be saying mean things lately. We also learn the difference between mean and moody.
These three things will help you to problem-solve and communicate with your husband with a deeper understanding. Try them out and let us know in the Facebook group how it went!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Jan 26, 2022
Wednesday Jan 26, 2022
Do you think you might be insecure in your marriage and are wondering how to change it? Perhaps you aren’t sure if you have a right to feel this way. Perhaps you don’t feel insecure at all.
The truth is we ALL have some insecurities, it’s just that some people are better at managing them and not allowing them to hurt their relationships. In this episode, we will talk about 3 ways your insecurities might be hurting your marriage, we'll learn which insecurities might be valid, and how we can overcome the ones that are not.
Are you new around here and want to know more? Check me out at:
Get instant access to my free workbook:
5 Steps to becoming a Grace Fueled Wife - Navigating the journey to improving your marriage
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method is available here:
gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com
For more info:
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! If you do - let me know you found it from the show!!!
- Reach out to me directly on Instagram @TheGraceFueledWife
- FREE Love letter writing class:
Tuesday Feb 01, 2022
Tuesday Feb 01, 2022
Your husband cheated. Now What? How do you go on? How do you forgive him when you are filled with such anger and pain. You’re feeling heartbroken but you want to forgive him, or at least you know that God has called you to forgive but are not sure what to do.
I pray this episode is a blessing to you and if it isn’t relevant, please share it with someone whom you think may need to hear it.
Here are the links to the previous episodes on infidelity:
Apple: E26// Can you forgive after infidelity w. Stephanie Boersma
Spotify: E26// Can you forgive after infidelity w. Stephanie Boersma
Apple: E46// How do we heal from infidelity and my husband’s porn addiction with Restored 2 More
Spotify: E46// How do we heal from infidelity and my husband’s porn addiction with Restored 2 More
Are you new around here and want to know more? Check me out at:
Get instant access to my free workbook:
5 Steps to becoming a Grace Fueled Wife - learn if your marriage is worth saving and Navigate the journey to improving your marriage
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method is available here:
gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com
For more info:
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! If you do - let me know you found it from the show!!!
- Reach out to me directly on Instagram @TheGraceFueledWife
- FREE Love letter writing class:
Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
We can all feel unappreciated in marriage at times.
Here are three ways to reduce your resentment and increase intimacy in your marriage rather than creating resentment and anger.
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
The Community...
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
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I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method is my signature marriage course - check the link for details https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/
- 1:1 Coaching call https://calendly.com/beatrizvargas/45-min-coaching-call
Thursday Feb 10, 2022
Thursday Feb 10, 2022
As we enter into this second month of the year many of us are looking at the goals or resolutions we’ve made - or broken so far and either thinking about how to recommit to them or how we can make new goals.
So often, however, we make goals for our health, business, faith, motherhood, and we DON’T make goals for our marriage yet God’s word says very clearly, “without vision the people will perish” Proverbs 19:18
Let’s take these next few minutes together to discuss why we should make goals for our marriage and how to make and achieve those goals.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Feb 16, 2022
Wednesday Feb 16, 2022
In this LIVE COACHING episode we discuss how to rekindle intimacy in your marriage after a rough season. We talk about being afraid of rejection, lacking the confidence to initiate sex, and needing to push past a mental block that is preventing you from having the marriage of your dreams.
You DO NOT want to miss this!!!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Monday Feb 21, 2022
Monday Feb 21, 2022
Are you feeling insecure in your marriage? A few weeks ago we talked about how insecurity is hurting your marriage, in this episode, we learn 3 tips (plus a bonus 😉) for how to overcome that insecurity, improve your connection, and reduce resentment for your husband.
Let me know what you think!! Let’s connect!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Mar 02, 2022
Wednesday Mar 02, 2022
Are you wondering what God says about you, your marriage, the plans you have in life? In this episode, we discuss 3 tips to start hearing God’s voice today as taught by Priscilla Shirer in her book Discerning the Voice of God.
Let me know what you think!! Let’s connect!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Mar 09, 2022
Wednesday Mar 09, 2022
We’ve all heard about couples who “grow apart.” It’s what happens when they become so disconnected and far away that they have trouble getting back to the passion and love they once shared. This “growing apart” usually starts off with roommate syndrome. You know, that feeling that your husband is more of a roommate than a soulmate…
Here is the truth, just because your marriage may feel like that now does NOT mean it’s destined to fail. Roommate syndrome is a normal stage that many marriages fall into. The difference between marriages that fail and ones that thrive is that happy couples learn to recognize the signs early on and do things to prevent it from getting worse.
Listen in for 2 tips to start implementing TODAY so you can see the roommate syndrome be reversed within a few weeks.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
- The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
- Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
- Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com