The Grace Fueled Wife: Marriage Advice | Emotional Intimacy | Communication & Conflict Resolution
Are you sitting in a marriage that feels empty? Struggling to connect with your husband or wondering why communication in your marriage feels so hard? Maybe you feel lonely in your marriage even though you’re still living under the same roof.
Maybe you’re telling yourself you’re just sticking it out for the kids… and what really keeps you in the marriage is your commitment to God.
If this is you, I’ve been there. And I want to help you reconnect in your marriage, rebuild emotional intimacy, and feel cherished again.
Hey, I’m Beatriz Vargas — a Christian marriage coach, Jesus-loving wife, and mom. I’ve been married for over 15 years, but for the first five years of our marriage we struggled with constant conflict, poor communication, and emotional disconnection.
I was busy telling my husband all the things he was doing wrong — what he needed to change, how he needed Jesus, and what he needed to do to make me happy.
We tried marriage counseling, small groups, and all the things we were told would fix our marriage. Nothing worked… and eventually we separated.
But learning how communication, emotional safety, and grace actually work inside a marriage changed everything.
Today, my husband and I have the affectionate, emotionally connected marriage I once thought was impossible.
On The Grace Fueled Wife Podcast, you’ll learn how to:
• communicate more effectively with your husband
• break unhealthy conflict cycles in marriage
• rebuild emotional intimacy and connection
• stop feeling lonely in your marriage
• navigate difficult conversations with grace
• strengthen your Christian marriage even when your husband isn’t changing
If you feel like you’re the only one trying to save your marriage… if you’re tired of having the same arguments over and over… or if you’re longing to feel close again, this podcast will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface.
Each week we talk about communication in marriage, conflict resolution, emotional intimacy, and how faith and grace can help restore connection in even the most difficult seasons of marriage.
So grab your journal, take a deep breath, and let’s start creating the connected, grace-fueled marriage you’ve been praying for.
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Episodes
Wednesday May 25, 2022
Wednesday May 25, 2022
Way back in episode 1, I said I would talk about the things that I did which led to my separation.
In the excitement of the new show, the start of the pandemic, and recording episode after episode of all the mistakes we make as wives, I forgot to add my 3 biggest mistakes!
Let’s be clear, I’ve made so many more mistakes. Most of which I’ve talked about in other episodes, but these three are the biggest offenders as it relates to why my husband left.
Of course, that doesn’t excuse his choice, but I hope this episode will give you the insight I promised. I pray this blesses you and gives you an understanding for your own life.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
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Saturday May 21, 2022
Saturday May 21, 2022
No matter where you are in your marriage, whether you’re on the brink of separation or you are just looking to reconnect, this episode will help you to visualize and achieve the marriage of your dreams.
For some of you, the dream will be as big as "I want to win my husband back" for others, you just want to be intimate again.
We start off with some journal prompts and end with 5 steps to partner with God for the marriage of your dreams.
Are you ready? Let’s dive in!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
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Tuesday May 17, 2022
Tuesday May 17, 2022
I see you out there trying to increase intimacy and connection in your marriage. You want to prioritize date night but don’t have child care.
Here is a quick tip for you to make it happen THIS WEEK!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Saturday May 14, 2022
Saturday May 14, 2022
One of the biggest requests I get from my clients is for better communication with their husbands. This episode will walk you through the two basic questions I start with during a session to help them get to a place where I can speak into their individual situations.
Tune in and let me know what your answers are in the Facebook group or over email!
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Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
The Community...
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
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Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method is my signature marriage course - check the link for details https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/
1:1 Coaching call https://calendly.com/beatrizvargas/45-min-coaching-call
Tuesday May 10, 2022
Tuesday May 10, 2022
Is it ever okay to give your husband the silent treatment?
I’m sure you’ve wanted to before. Who hasn’t? Although anger and resentment may cause you to want to give your husband the silent treatment, healthy marriages have strong communication and high intimacy levels.
So what do we do when we’re not feeling those things? In this week’s episode, we learn how and when it might be appropriate to give our husband the silent treatment.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Saturday May 07, 2022
Saturday May 07, 2022
Are you trying to improve your marriage by yourself? Don't feel bad. Many of my listeners are. In this episode, we learn how to improve your marriage with self-coaching.
This new weekly series will take you through common marriage struggles to coach yourself into a transformed marriage.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Tuesday May 03, 2022
Tuesday May 03, 2022
Are you looking for more intimacy in your marriage? Whether you want more sex or just more meaningful conversation the state of your bedroom could be to blame for the disconnection you’re feeling.
This episode will give you three questions to ponder to identify how making some changes to your bedroom can lead to major changes in your marriage.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Thursday Apr 28, 2022
Thursday Apr 28, 2022
If you are looking for books on marriage whether your marriage is struggling or faces normal struggles like everyone else, this episode is for you.
I give you my top 3 books to read for the next three months to improve and restore your marriage.
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Wednesday Apr 20, 2022
Wednesday Apr 20, 2022
Ever wonder why your husband is so grumpy? Learn why AND help your cranky husband come around with these 5 quick tips.
Remember, since we probably aren’t going to divorce over moodiness it's more of a tension to be managed rather than a problem to be solved!
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Tuesday Apr 12, 2022
Tuesday Apr 12, 2022
If you’ve ever gotten frustrated because your apology wasn’t accepted or perhaps your husband’s apology didn’t feel genuine for you, this episode is for you! You'll learn why your husband might not believe your apology or why you might not believe his.
Also, here is the link to my previous episode referenced talking about How to craft an effective apology.
Apple Podcasts:
E47// How to craft an effective apology
Spotify:
E47// How to craft an effective apology
Wait!!! Before you go!
Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!
Work with me:
The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com
Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community!
Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com